The only person who can control your life is always yourself.

1. The one who can control your life is always yourself. The birth stipulates the starting point, the choice determines the direction, the mindset about life. A big heart can accommodate all the things in the world. A modest heart loves the goodness of the world. A calm heart discusses all things in the world. Fix your heart and respond to the changes in the world. Great things and difficult things to see the responsibility, adversity and good times to see the broad-mindedness, have to give and take to see the wisdom, is a success or failure to see the persistence!

2, life if all is two points one line like smooth, will be as plain as plain water. Life if there is no suffering, we will be proud; no setbacks, success will no longer have joy, and not get a sense of accomplishment. Without vicissitudes, we will not have compassion. Therefore, do not fantasize that life is always so complete, the seasons of life can not only spring. Everyone is destined to trek through ditches and hurdles in his life, to taste bitterness and helplessness, and to experience frustration and disillusionment.

3, life needs four kinds of cultivation: one is to endure. Endure a moment of anger, eliminating the disaster of a hundred days. Can endure, not necessarily cowardly. Second, see through. Maximum calm, not to see through the red dust, but to see through life after still able to love life. Third, can afford. Be a person to have to bear, do not shirk, do not escape, face up to the bleak life. Fourth, put down. Put down the paranoia, put down the memory, put down the unwillingness, put down the desire, plain and simple.

4. As a person, character comes first, talent comes second. Doing things, reason first, diligence second. Plain is the main line of life, wonderful is the embellishment of life. We can not avoid the reality of ordinary, more need to indulge in fantasies about the future. Many times it is not the fate that is unfortunate, it is their own lack of effort. The more positive and optimistic you are, the more courageous you are to face, good luck will come. Only people who are brave enough to bow their heads and can recognize themselves soberly are able to smile and be proud of the wind and clouds between the peaks and valleys of life.

5, remember those who hold an umbrella for you in the rain, to help you block foreign objects, people who hold you tight in the darkness, make you laugh, chat with you all night long, visit you in the car, cry with you, people in the hospital with you, always take you as the most important person, take you to wander around the people who say that they miss you. It is these people who make up the warmth in your life, it is these warmth that keeps you away from the gloom, it is these warmth that makes you a kind person.

6, life as a road, all the way hard, all the way scenery. Your eyes, is your life realm. Always see more than their own excellent people, that you are going uphill. Always see and their own almost the same people, that you almost in the mix. Always see people who are not as good as yourself, it means you are going downhill. Instead of blaming the world, change yourself. Mind your own heart, do your own thing, than anything else.

7, care about themselves, we must look down on the honor and disgrace of life. Glory or disgrace, or, to be open to it, to face with a calm mind. Glory is not proud of luxury, humiliation does not lose ambition, not floating, loss is not atrophied. Remember, no one will always be lucky, no one will always be unfortunate. When you are honored, please laugh it off, and when you are humiliated, please laugh it off. As the ancients said; honor and disgrace, idly watching the flowers blossom and fall in front of the court; to stay or go without intention, roaming with the sky outside the clouds.

8, some stories, not necessarily someone to listen to, listen to yourself is good. Some sadness, not necessarily anyone will understand, they understand on the good. Some wounds, time will be good, so nature is good. Some of the grievances, figured it out will be relieved, put it down on the good. Some injuries, the pain is also very understand, understand the good. Some of the pain, experience will understand, understand the growth. Some suffering, suffered, know, know, happy.

9, every morning, I remind myself once again, life is short and beautiful, no time to get entangled, no time to count. Only by putting down those unnecessary burdens, we can go all the way in style. Plant a tree with a dream in your heart and let it grow with us. If there are no clouds, will the sky be lonely. If there is no sky, where do the clouds go to moor. Breathe in and raise your head, I would like to face the light and live up to the grace of youth.

10. The greatest charm is not success, but responsibility. The best education is not indoctrination, but enlightenment. The fastest pace is not to cross, but to continue. The slowest pace is not slowness, but wandering. The widest road is not a thoroughfare, but a straight path. The most dangerous road is not a steep slope, but a trap. The greatest happiness is not to get, but to have. The most expensive wealth is not money, but health. The greatest blessing is not the future, but the present.

11, when others continue to scold you, but instead of appreciating him a few words, will let the surrounding people surprised, but also make the other party at a loss. When others constantly praise you, but instead of self-injury a few sentences, will let the crowd admire, but also to reduce their own pressure. When everyone's spearhead is aimed at a person, say a few words of justice, will let the crowd secretly admire, but also let you make a rare friend.

12. If you cry, your opponent will laugh. If you laugh, your opponent will cry. Life is like Angry Birds, every time you fail, there are always a few pigs laughing. All you have to do is ignore the jeers and give yourself a pep talk. Smile confidently and then do what you need to do confidently. Be brave, it's really no big deal!

13. There are some things that no one else can replace. If you are not generous enough, no one to take your anger. If you are not open-minded enough, no one will be depressed for you. If you are not calm enough, no one to take your anxiety. If you are not peaceful enough, no one will be lonely for you. If you are not strong enough, no one will be sad for you. If you are not sunny enough, no one will be depressed for you. If you have a cheerful mind and a strong heart, no one can replace your happiness.

14, cherish what you have now, maybe the next second, no longer belong to you. Time is like running water, you can never touch the same running water twice. There are two major misconceptions in life, one is to live to see, the second is to see others live. As long as you feel happy, you don't need to prove anything to others. Don't just look at others and walk on the wrong path under your own feet.

15. Indecisiveness is the biggest negative energy in life. Life has nothing to be indecisive. From the perspective of life to see, any kind of choice on your life path is wrong, no matter how you choose, there are mistakes. Therefore, when the choice comes, A and B, take one and go. There is no right or wrong in life, there is only persistence after choosing, no regrets, go on, it is right. One of my favorite poems is, as you walk, flowers bloom.

16, a thing you expect too high you lose, a love you pay too much you are tired, a person you wait a long time you hurt. Remember, there is no hard pass in life, life is not inseparable from the person. If you are not cherished, no longer important, learn to turn around magnificently. You can cry, you can be heartbroken, but not despair. Today's tears, will be your growth tomorrow. Today's scars, will be your tomorrow's strength.

17, you smart people will say that you have a heavy heart, you rely on the efforts of some people will say that you are lucky, you say that they are born optimistic some people will say that you are false, sometimes, you are obviously a cup of white water, but was forced into a full stomach full of carbonated beverages. People meet too many people in their lives, even if some words word for word, there is no need to live in their eyes, as long as the inner clarity, you never have to please a person who does not understand you.

18, people can not inferiority complex, inferiority complex to see themselves too low, what things can not do. People can not be proud of themselves, proud to see themselves too high, and finally no one can look up to you. The most important thing is not to pay too much attention to other people's eyes, constantly and their own than, and their own competition, so that they mature and progress, to achieve their own world. In the eyes of others to live in their own, always is the subordinate of other people's eyes, in their own eyes to live in their own, is the master of their own.

19. If you think your friend is polite, excellent and cultivated to you, hi, you may be casual acquaintances. If you think your friend is cute and funny, funny and humble, hi, you may be acquaintances. If you think your friend is bossy and domineering, bad-tempered and proud, congratulations, you're probably great friends. Because, maturity is for strangers, silliness is for pals, and childishness is for people you like.

20, do not look down on your hand to do every little thing trivial, to do them beautifully, in order to achieve great things in the future. Do not go too far to anxiety tomorrow, because anxiety does not solve any problem will only make the status quo worse. Although who's youth is not confused, but you are often confused for only one reason, that is, in the age that should be desperate to work hard, think too much, do too little.